“If we really want to love,We must learn how to forgive”-Mother Theresa
“To err is human;to forgive is divine”-Alexander pope
How beautifully they have quoted forgiveness with a significant meaning ???
Yes I know that forgiveness is something attributed to strong people and you need to forgive them(people who hurt you)not because they deserve forgiveness but because you deserve peace.
Now what about forgiving your bullies who gave you some painful memories,how do you forgive your ex who broke your heart into pieces???people who hurt,degrade and mock you???your loved partner who cheated you in a relationship or marriage that you have invested your life in it???
Is it so simple to let go off your anger,guilt,pain,hurt,rage and resentments that you hold on to after a betrayal episode and awful life experience???
Carrying and holding onto your past burdens on your shoulders and stepping into the future is obviously similar to standing in a hurricane by holding an umbrella and anticipating that no destruction happens.
Letting go off all the hurt and anger that has been suppressing and haunting you and taking the powerful forward step to forgive and move on with your own life is one of the best blessing that you could gift your own self.
But how do we do that???why should we do that???
Before we do that we need to know the benefits of forgiveness…… you foremost have to understand the concept of forgiving.Always remember that to forgive you perpetrator does not imply that you need to call or contact them and let them know that you have forgiven their mistakes.Because in most of the circumstances the person who hurt you is least bothered about your feelings or may be you are not in contact and you are certainly aware of it apparently.
Forgiveness is a freedom from all the distress and misery that you have been suffered by removing stress and negativity bound to the situation from your life sequentially.It is a transformational process for your self like self healing,it will never happen in one night……. it takes time and you should be willing to embrace and accept it.
“Let your pain become your power and use your hurtful experience to empower you in a positive direction and if you are strong enough to forget it….its wonderful and if you cannot erase those resentments there is no sin in holding on to them….but what is the purpose of freezing them to your self???
Today right now as you are reading this blog if you have some one that hurt you or suffered you……try to forgive the situation….let go off the agony,anger and hatred that is chained to your self and…..not because they deserve it…..because you damn need it….it does not make you superior individual nor egoistic than your perpetrator it only indicates that you are giving yourself the freedom of peace…..freedom that you deserve.You can not change the past where you suffered but you always have all the power with in yourself to embrace and learn from it and the choice is always yours,if you are mature enough to place yourself in your opponent shoes and re analyse the circumstance……do it….. and if you are unable to do that……all you can do is learn from it and let it help you to grow as an individual in a progressive way “
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