Tell me how many times a day do we judge others????or may be become a victim of others judgments??
Judging and forming your own impressions based on examples like-
Appearances-“Oh look she is so fat….I guess she doesn’t work out or she is a lazy bum”(As if you are feeding your own food” (You never know and understand how desperately she is struggling hard to loose those extra pounds)
profile pics-“I am sure this photo of his is photo shopped,no way he could be so handsome” (Are you his make up artist????)
Jobs-“He deserves the low paid job…. he is a lazy bug,he doesn’t work hard”(Tell me are you paying his bills???)
“Do you know she is very good at buttering her boss…that is the reason for her successful career”(Did you sponsored for her education????)
Housewife-“Oh God why the hell she can’t work???She is enjoying her husband’s money….My god I can’t be so relaxed as her”(Tell me is she enjoying your husband’s money???She has a luxury to choose….why do you howl at some one’s life???May be she is battling her own combats inside her head…who knows??)
Broken marriages-“All is her/his fault…..they could have work on their relationship with some patience may be”(Do you know how many scars and bruises are on her/his soul….the most difficult painful thing in this world is to give upon one’s own marriage)
Color of skin-Assessing prompt conclusions based on their color of skin and discriminating people’s behavior solely through superficial impressions (Remember no one chooses their own skin color,race,blood-why do people judge some one’s character based on their skin color???)
Judging by the Luxury brands-Dressing up in branded clothes,handbags,watches doesn’t define your value.Yes of course they enhances your outer look but what about your inner self???
Does the same iphone x,branded watch that you purchased gives you the same amount of happiness even after a year also??
“Remember Your self worth is not determined by your net worth”
And the list goes on and on….
There is a famous quote I would like to share with you guys-
“Counting other people’s sins does not make you a saint”
All I wanted to tell you is that-
“Judging other people is some times an involuntary reflex and inevitable too at certain junctures…..….it is acceptable until it does not negatively influence other people’s life and most importantly your own life.When you scan your thoughts deeply you realize that one’s own fears,insecurities,negativity,flaws,dislikes,lack of courage,your jealous nature come into picture when you start judging others”
“Give opinions but not judgements”
“Don’t confine your impressions based on your own limited perceptions of what you see.Every one has their own untold stories,surviving daily struggles,battling with their own existence.There is already so much of hatred in this world,let your good heart and kindness light up some one’s life”
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